90 Day Fiancé’s Sarper guarantees he’s staying loyal to Shekinah after coming to the USA.
The fact stars lately sat down with PEOPLE to supply an replace on what life has been like residing collectively in Los Angeles after years of long-distance relationship and Shekinah’s transient transfer to Turkey. Acknowledging that Shekinah has not all the time trusted Sarper to be trustworthy, he says she has nothing to fret about anymore.
“I’ve a really chaotic previous with that physique rely factor,” he concedes, referring to a previous revelation that he has slept with practically 3,000 totally different ladies. “However for a person, if the physique rely is excessive, it is a good factor for a relationship. As a result of proper now, ladies cannot tempt me. Wherever I’m going ladies attempt to discuss to me. I do not care how stunning they’re, how horny. I do not care as a result of I noticed all the pieces. I had the fantasy.”
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“That is why I all the time advised her, ‘Okay, you do not like my previous, the physique rely, but it surely’s profit for relationship,” Sarper continues. “I will not have a roving eye as a result of I had a roving eye.”
Whereas viewers would possibly marvel if Sarper’s loyalty can be examined by residing someplace with a wholly totally different group of girls, he insists that’s not the case.
“Lady is lady in all places,” he says, later including: “On paper, I’m the worst candidate for a boyfriend or for a husband with that previous. If I’ve a sister and she or he brings such a man, I’ll say, ‘What are you doing?’ I perceive that.”
Shekinah agrees, saying that “the belief factor received simpler” when he moved to the U.S. and have become extra depending on her.
“In Turkey, I all the time questioned, ‘What would he be like in Los Angeles with a bunch of lovely ladies round? I do not know the way he will act. Is he going to embarrass me?’” she explains. “After which as quickly as I noticed him in Los Angeles, he is oblivious to anybody and he is so hyper-focused on me.”
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Considering again to when she first met him, Shekinah says she thought he would calm down finally.
“I used to be like, he does not actually need to be this particular person eternally,” she remembers. “I felt like he was getting bored with that life.”
Nonetheless, she says they struggled with the transfer in different methods. In Turkey, for instance, Shekinah admits that she preferred being “submissive” to Sarper, however in America, issues are totally different.
“Our dynamic modified as a result of I’m having to take the lead now as a result of he is in my world,” she says. “I am like, ‘That is how we do issues right here.’ And he is an alpha male. In Turkey, I fell again, and I used to be taking his lead, and when that function reversed, it in all probability did appear to be I modified as a result of our dynamic modified.”
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90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.
